I was talking to a dear friend of mine today and we were talking about relationships. While I was listening to her, I heard her say:

“When choosing a partner, he/she has to be a level up from your last partner.”

It took me a little bit to catch that as my brain was trying to decipher it. Something was missing about that statement. Then I asked her:

“But how can you tell if someone was up a level? Do you tell by the way they look or what’s in their bank account? That could be misleading.”

It’s amazing how many times I’ve heard this statement or something similar to it in the dating world. People always want something better than what they used to have but they are missing the key. What is the key you ask?

The key is the Universal Law of Attraction.

You attract to you what you are. You attract to you what you are in frequency with. For example, if you are sad, angry, antisocial and broke, you will attract a partner in the same frequency. If you are happy, successful, and abundant, you will attract a partner who is also happy, successful and abundant.

We attract to us what we feel and think. As a twin Flame match maker, I usually have my clients make a list of attributes that their partner to be has. Then I have them go through the list and circle which attributes they already have. The ones they don’t circle are the ones they then need to work on within themselves in order to attract the partner they just described.

You cannot attract to you that which you are not. And this applies not only to relationships but in all areas of our lives. Whether it is calling in your soul tribe, or soul mate clients or that perfect job, it is so important to be in the same frequency and vibration as the very thing you are trying to call into your life.

So, if there is something you’ve been working on for awhile to manifest and it seems to be taking a long time to manifest, ask yourself this question.

What do I need to do, or shift or change in order to be in the same vibration as that which I desire to manifest?

Really sit with this question and let the answers come to you. It’s so important for you to realize that we are the creators of our reality. Whatever we think and feel creates our reality. Once you have grasp this Law of Like attracts Like, manifestation of your hearts desires will come much easier for you.